I am Arantxa Joseph, Somatic Sexologist.

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Such important work. Arantxa is an amazing professional and an authentic, trustworthy, beautiful person who lives and works from the heart.
Amina Petra
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About Me

Developing your sexuality & expanding your pleasure is a skill anyone can learn.

Are you aware that you never got the sex education you needed to be equipped for a fulfilling sex life? A sex education that is focused on pleasure, relationships and expanding your own personal potential?

Do you want to be able to experience your sexuality in a relaxed, natural way, without being influenced by shame or tabus?

Do you have a feeling that you could experience more pleasure, more satisfaction more joy in your sex life but you just don’t have the right tools?

I am here to support your deepest and highest intention(s) for yourself.

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Nine reasons you'd want to work with me

1. To learn how to give & receive pleasure

There is a misconception that giving and receiving pleasure comes instinctively & naturally to all us humans when in fact its actually not. Giving and receiving is an art & as with every art form, there are skills we need to learn before, in order to become fluent and trained in this dynamic.

2. To recover your sexual wellness & pleasure after childbirth, genitalia, pelvic or breast surgery.

Scar tissue Remediation is a modality we are trained in, where loss of sensation in scars caused by episiotomies, c-section, circumcision scars, gender reassignment, mastectomies, plastic surgery (etc.), can be brought back through specific palpation & massage techniques.

3. To accept & love your body & sexuality.

Because some people still feel shame or disgust towards their own bodies, we offer support helping you develop a positive body image as well as build the capacity to feel comfortable being nude. The same goes for sexuality. We support you with addressing and accepting your sexuality, so you can feel free and confident with who you are.

4. To understand & practice embodied safety, consent & boundaries.

We teach you about the Science of Safety through Stephen Porges' Polyvagal Theory, how your nervous system functions and how felt-safety IS a non negotiable prerequisite for embodying TRUE consent. Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent® is the fundamental tool we use when teaching you about empowered voice and empowered choice!

5. To address & unwind sexual shame.

Due to cultural, social and religious conditionings, much shame has seeped into our consciousnesses. Shame can be defined as "the interruption of pleasure" and can manifest in a myriad of ways, inhibiting the feel-good feelings of your body... Also, messages such as "sex is dirty or dangerous" impacts your body as much as your mind & has ben linked to pelvic pain & genital amnesia.

6. To expand your potential for pleasure.

The latest research in neuroscience and neuroplasticity supports the understanding that new neural pathways are created as we repeatedly practice a new skill. This is what "Embodiment" actually is. To practice a skill until it becomes an automatic response of your body. So, first it's crucial for you to give yourself permission to practice pleasure, so you can expand your potential for the good stuff!

7. To understand and explore the anatomy of arousal, as a full body experience.

The notion that arousal is exclusively bound to the genitals is just not true! We support you in exploring the different textures & possibilities of pleasure available in your whole body, as well as help you to cultivate your curiosity and discover what is possible for you to experience.

8. To Develop your sexual confidence.

We celebrate your natural erotic expression and encourage you to own your authentic wants and needs as well as express what you don't want, what does not serve you. Also , we have wide tool kit full of different practices and exercises that will support you in making empowered choices so you can connect to the parts of yourself that enhance your sexual confidence and well-being.

9. To enhance your sex life, as a couple.

We can show you how to improve your communication skills and how to co-create rituals and experiences that will nourish your love and desire for each other for years to come... How do we do this? We do this by sharing a combination of ancestral and modern erotic practices that expand and refresh your habitual intimate dynamics.

Offerings

Individual and Group Sessions

From intimite one on one sessions to easygoing exploration group sessions.

Sexological bodywork offering

Sexological
Bodywork

Sexological bodywork is a pioneering leading edge healing modality that sits at the intersection of erotic and therapeutic touch

Embodied Sex Coaching offering

Embodied
Sex Coaching

A non touch modality, that teaches you in a practical way how to overcome challenges with your sexuality or expand your pleasure possibilities.

Essensual M&E offering

Essensual
M&E

A closed group space and exploration into the Movement and Expression of your essential sensual. Six week explorations, intensives and retreats.

Testimonials

What Other People Say

Curious to know about other’s experiences of working with me?

Working with Arantxa has been a magical journey of self reclamation. Through working together, I have been able to experience new aspects of myself and my sexuality. Arantxa holds incredibly nurturing and safe space and I’m grateful to have given myself this gift - sex education as I believe it should be.

Sarah

Dear Arantxa,
My growth in this process, in your guidance and support, is a pivot in my life, going through my days now. You are providing me with just the right doses of professionalism mixed with sensitivity and gentleness. I'm so happy I had the foresight and confidence to drink this potion. I don't know how long this will be going on and how much is still awaiting to be learnt but you have already helped melting some critical layers of my shell to help me feel myself closer and allow myself to be more exposed. Just felt the call to send you this.

Such important work. Arantxa is an amazing professional, authentic, trustworthy, beautiful person who lives and works from the heart, and whose sessions aI can highly recommend. If you want to go on a deep intimate journey with your self, being held in a safe space and feel listened to and seen, I would not doubt to book a session with this body-wise human being. Thank you Arantxa for bringing this work into the world.

Amina Petra

Arantxa made my first experience of sexual bodywork very beautiful. I felt warmly welcomed and understood what I'm coming for. Her clarity of what she can offer to me and the fact that she left me many choices of how I want to work, made me feel very comfortable. I feel she is highly professional in what she's offering, a beautiful and shiny vibration to be surrounded by and most of all, she made me feel super safe. I can highly recommend to work with her. Thank you Arantxa.

El otro dia le dije a Arantxa que sentia que ella no era una persona. Durante las sesiones Arantxa se vuelve un elemento, aire. Al despersonificarla uno siente que no hay nadie juzgando, lo que le brinda a sus espacios total confianza y libertad. Me siento cuidada, contenida y respetada.

Tu tens um efeito relaxante para mim. De dar opções bem leves onde nenhuma escolha é boa ou má...onde me dá a oportunidade de ver o que eu quero. Em outras terapias estaria mais passiva e aqui sinto-me muito amparada e também autónoma, com a liberdade de estar presente.

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